20 best sex toys for women of 2025, tested and reviewed
Introducing BDSM toys also will enable you to enhance the experience by adding layers of sensory deprivation using blindfolds or bed restraint adding to the sensory experience with soft floggers and feathers. It can be fun to try something new and shed any inhibitions that either partner may have. It would help if you estimated your partner’s reactions before introducing them to your bedroom.
It’s curved to match the shape of your body, which means you can use the toy hands-free when you’re lying on your back. If your search for the best sex toy is feeling like an Easter egg hunt, let us point you to Je Joue’s ILY Pebble. While it’s the size and shape of a skipping stone, the aptly named Pebble is anything but rock-hard—instead, it’s made of ultra-squishy silicone. If you’re short on storage space, you’ll love this three-in-one vibrator from Playboy. One side has a round, squishy head that functions as an external vibe.
Its memory function remembers your preferred settings, routines, timings, and pressures, and with the clean lines of a pump that’s dropped its manual pump for a super quiet electric alternative, it looks amazing. For over 40 years, Lovers has assisted with amplifying the importance of women’s pleasure. The company aims to create a judgment-free space that is informative just as much as it is pleasurable.
The LELO INA “is a perfect introduction to rabbit vibrators,” says Freya. Despite being cute and compact, bullet vibrators are much-loved for the super-sized sensations they provide , as well as their stealth capabilities. “Whether you’re on a naughty weekend getaway or a business trip [you can] slip it into your purse or pocket, and you’ll always have a secret pleasure companion by your side,” says Kryplone. And users rave about the MoiAme Bullet, which is sturdy but flexible and packs a major punch.
The staff at Early to Bed replicated our test and found similar results. The Aer is extremely simple to charge and operate (one tester described it as having “zero learning curve”) 12 inch dildo, with a magnetic USB charger port at its base and three buttons on the top of the toy. The bottom button turns the toy off and on (long hold) and cycles through five vibration patterns (press). The upper buttons move the intensity up and down through five levels. According to the manufacturer, the Aer can fully charge in two hours and can operate at the highest setting for up to one and a half hours on a full charge. In our testing, we were able to achieve a full charge from a drained battery in only an hour and 16 minutes—and the toy was still going strong after we left it on at maximum speed for two hours.
Then you can either let the vibrations alone bring you to orgasm, or you can move the toy up and down as you might do with your hand during manual masturbation. Across the board, male masturbators can lead to a stronger, more intense orgasms than may be possible with your hand alone, says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of the sex toy retailer Organic Loven. Truth is, your hand will never be able to vibrate, heat up, restrict blood flow, or replicate the texture of a vagina, mouth, or anus. Heck, as far as texture is concerned, calluses are as close as you’re going to get (sorry). We loved the strong vibrations and easy-to-hold loop handle on the brand’s White Temptation but found the loaf-like shape to be awkward to use, preferring the tapered silhouette of the Purple Pleasure.